Marjorie has learned a lot from the Safer Cities programme and is sharing her knowledge with her female peers to keep them safe from harassment.
Marjorie, 16, is eager to spread knowledge about all kinds of safety. Living with her mother in the district of Carabayllo in Lima, Peru, she became involved with Plan International’s Safer Cities programme which aims to transform communities into safe places where girls can live without fear of harassment or violence.
“I am fortunate to live close to school but that doesn’t mean I haven’t had uncomfortable experiences.
“What I’ve discovered is that it truly doesn’t matter if you cover up, people like moto taxi drivers will still make comments at you. You can walk in trousers and a thick coat and they will still say ridiculous things like ‘Mamacita, you look so good’.
Verbal harassment is rife
“Some moto taxi drivers actually think its fine to whistle at us because they’re not touching our bodies, but if it makes us feel bad anyway then that is still harassment.
Most girls at my school don’t even understand how pregnancies happen. How are we mean to protect ourselves if we don’t have that information?
“We have many of them that work around my school, some are even friends with the boys in our classes so they think that gives them permission to talk all friendly to us.
“This could all be resolved by just having more police around our school, but that’s not really the case. It’s hard to trust the police because if you go and report something they’ll just brush it off. They will say things like ‘oh it’s not that serious, they’re just messing around’.
“They don’t realise that by saying that it can discourage girls from coming forward – what if something really bad happened?
Sex education helps girls protect themselves
“You know, most girls at my school don’t even understand how pregnancies happen. How are we meant to protect ourselves if we don’t have that information? I’m lucky because I was taught as part of the Safer Cities project.
“I know some mothers talk about it with their daughters but most don’t because it’s so taboo. At school they once tried to explain it generally and most of the girls were so confused that I had to explain it to my friends.”
Recent findings from Plan International’s Expert Survey on Girls’ Safety in Cities Across the World, discovered that Lima is an extremely dangerous place for girls and young women to live. The survey found that the risk to girls of sexual harassment, sexual violence and theft and robbery is very high in the Latin American city and that city dangers like these negatively affect girls’ ability to attend school or work.
Girls develop confidence and feel more informed
For Marjorie, being involved in the Safer Cities project has helped her become more confident. “I used to feel so confused sometimes, but with all this information I feel informed – it’s also allowed me to be more expressive.
“You know what, even my mother is learning from me! She is my best friend and I’m not afraid to confide in her. We now openly talk about menstruation, pregnancies, harassment and all that. Having someone you trust in is so important. I’m very lucky to have someone like my mom, and I hope more girls can have people they can talk to about all these topics. Everyone has the right to be informed.”
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