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Rohingya girls have formed strong bonds since arriving in Bangladesh.

Friendships lost and found

Gulsan, 18 and Minara, 15 met on the journey to Bangladesh and have formed a strong bond.

The Rohingya crisis: One year on

For girls caught up in the Rohingya crisis, life has been turned upside down.

Having fled persecution in Myanmar, they now live in Kutupalong refugee camp in Bangladesh – one of the largest refugee camps in the world.

Surrounded by nearly a million people, many of whom are strangers, they have all had to adapt to life in an unfamiliar environment.

However, for adolescent girls in particular, this has been especially hard.

Many girls have witnessed extreme violence

Many girls witnessed and experienced extreme violence when they fled Myanmar, losing friends and loved ones along the way.

Now, with their families fearful for their safety in the camps, and following cultural norms, many are confined to their shelters almost 24 hours a day.

Yet when girls do have the opportunity to leave their tents and be themselves, life is completely different.

Visiting the camp with child rights organisation Plan International, Bangladeshi photographer KM Asad documented the friendships girls have formed since arriving in Bangladesh, illustrating the important role friendship plays in building girls’ resilience and helping them keep their hopes and dreams alive.

Roshida, Sayeka and Afo, all aged 12.

Girls make friends, share food and clothes

Twelve-year-olds Roshida, Sayeka and Afo have been friends since September 2017 and have taken it upon themselves to act as a welcoming committee for new arrivals in the camp.

“They were very nice to me when I first arrived,” says Roshida. “I could not get food as I had only just got here, so they shared theirs with me.”

Nur, 12, Mohesena, 13, and Samira, 11.

Girls have been separated from friends and loved ones

Many of the girls now living in the camp saw their houses go up in flames last year when violence against the Rohingya in Myanmar escalated to extreme levels.

Although Mohesena has made new friends like Nur, 12, and Samira, 11, she has not forgotten those she lost during the violence last year.

In the chaos of leaving home, families and friends were separated, and many have not yet been reunited.

Friendships in camp help girls cope

For many new arrivals, the compassion shown by the girls already living in the camps - and the friendliness of the local Bangladeshi population – is a welcome relief.

Friendship is vital in humanitarian crises. Research carried out by Plan International has shown that girls in crisis with strong peer networks cope with their situation far better than those without.

Yet there are very few spaces in the camps where girls can get together and make new friends. There are only a limited number of schools, learning centres, and child-friendly spaces that those with the freedom to get to can use.

Minara, 15, and Tasmin, 13.

Freedom is limited

Even for girls who do have the ability to move from their shelters, they do not venture far – and certainly not by themselves – as it is not considered safe.

“We can’t go anywhere alone,” says Minara.

Cultural restrictions also play a part in limiting girls’ freedom of movement.

“We feel shy to go out without a hijab,” says Tasmin. “There is a lot of pressure from the community. None of us owns a hijab right now but sometimes our friends can help us.”

Bibi, 13, Rohey, 15, Ruhima 16, and Minara, 15.

Education is on hold

For most girls, with their freedom of movement so tightly restricted, the chance of getting an education is limited.

Bibi, 13, is the only one of her close friends who is attending school.

Yet there is an overwhelming desire among the girls in the camp to get an education. Rohey, 15, has entrepreneurship on her mind and is determined to become a seamstress. “I want to be more independent,” she says. “I would like a sewing machine and training so I can someday set up a business.”

Minara, 15, would love the opportunity to go to school and Ruhima, 16, used to sew in Myanmar and is hopeful she can get some training in the camp to help her hone her skills.

Yet despite the obvious resilience and adaptability of girls affected by this crisis, they currently have an uncertain future.

Girls have found the confidence to play with the new friends they have made in the camp.

We're listening to girls

According to Orla Murphy, Plan International’s Country Director in Bangladesh, it's time for change.

“One year since the start of this crisis it’s time for the government of Bangladesh and the international community to shift from merely providing emergency needs to thinking about children’s long-term futures.

“Conditions in the camps are much better than they were a year ago, but we speak to girls every day and they all say the same thing. They all want to get an education, to earn a living, to gain more independence and to contribute to their communities, but there are far too few opportunities for them to do this at the moment.

“If we do not want to be responsible for creating a lost generation, then we must not let what the girls tell us fall on deaf ears. We must take action now and work hard to provide all children and young people with the support they are so desperately crying out for.”

Learn about Rohingya girls' hopes, fears and needs in our research report.

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